Huwebes, Disyembre 22, 2011

How to Put the Fun Back Into Dating


Sometimes dating can become too much of a mundane habit. You start feeling as if you need to be with someone, and you start going through the motions until you find someone you hit it off with.

Whether you’re going out to check your area’s local hot spots or checking up dating sites to find a match, you don’t have to give in to the journey or the commitment aspect of dating. You can date to have fun and get some spice back into your life.

These are just few ways to be able to make dating fun again.

Remember to take a break

As long as you are going to go back into action again, there is no need to rush to do it right away. They say that life is short but hopefully it is not so short that you have to leap back into the dating pool as soon as you get out of it. Give yourself time and enjoy the single life, this will make dating new and exiting when you reenter the game.

Dress your part

Put on some different type of clothes. Spoil yourself a little bit but make sure that your dressing with a strong confidence. Knowing that you look great can easily bring some fun back into the dating game.

Try a different age group

If you have been dating younger men or women, try switching it up to someone older for an absolute new experience. These types of dates you’ll be on will definitely bring some fun back. 


Pick a new “type”

We all have types of people we like. Try to experiment, go out on a date with guys or a girl that isn’t usually in your wheelhouse. You never know what will happen next, you just might be able to find some true love this way. This process will at least be fun if you’re not thinking on getting serious.

Stay sober

Most of the time we try to drink more while on a date as a crutch for anxiety or if you just don’t know what to talk about. But remember to control the drinks and take advantage of your full sensory perception, try dating in other places and staying out of the drink-happy places.